Never been to a lifestyle club? Most people have the wrong idea of what a swing club is. Many think that it’s just one big orgy and you check your clothes at the door and then dive right in, doing anything you want with whomever you like. At Miami Velvet this is COMPLETELY not the case! More than anything else, Miami Velvet is a social club where you’ll meet and form friendships with some of the nicest people you’ve ever met. In some cases, you’ll form bonds that will last a lifetime.
Many of us have heard of “swinging”. Okay….some of you may even need to strike from your mind the visual of the 70’s swinger. You know the one…the post-dinner party, long-side-burned hubby who languidly fondles his neighbor’s wife upon the shag carpeting of his suburban, living room floor; all the while with the sound of his wife’s giggles erupting from the bedroom down the hall. For many swingers today, the “lifestyle” is social … and it may or may not include a partner “swap”. Today’s swinger is as evolved as today’s video games. A long way from the video game “Pong”.
Swinging, in a mainstream sense, has become something of a social-sexual phenomenon in recent years. People from all walks of life are attracted to the “’style”, with the highest influx being 30-40 something, married, middle to upper class, professionals hitting the scene for the first time. In a society that promotes sexuality, secure couples and singles have been able to develop a sense of sexual maturity. Good communication and honesty about “what turns you on” has led to a point where exploration has become a popular pastime.
Here’s how it works…
When you walk into a swing club for the very first time, you and or your partner are probably very nervous. You don’t know anyone there and you might feel like everyone is watching you. That’s a good sign! That means you’re normal. That’s exactly how everyone feels their first time.
You might expect a lot when you first come to a club and that’s probably the biggest cause of anxiety for first time visitors. As first timers, wives are usually more nervous about the evening. For many men, it’s hard to not think about fulfilling all of their fantasies of threesomes and orgies and once sure fire way to fuel any nervous fire a woman may have.
The best way to approach the evening is with only one single expectation, and that is to have a fun time together. This way you’ll both be completely comfortable, she’s not worried about him wanting to dive into the first orgy he sees and he’s not worried about deciding who is worthy of touching his precious wife.
Then one (or a few) of the following things will definitely happen…
# 1 – At the end of the night after mingling and dancing in such a sexually charged environment, you will both have the best mind-blowing orgasms during your love-making that you’ve had in years, probably recharging your sex life and supercharging your relationship and your marriage.
# 2 – While on the crowded dance floor during one of the slow songs, you’re dancing together and an attractive couple is dancing beside you and her clothes are coming off and you find her body rubbing against yours on the dance floor. You both respond by touching and caressing them back. Then after the song, you disappear into the crowd enjoying the excitement of the nameless pleasure of this slight sexy anonymous encounter.
# 3 – You are both so turned on by the evening that you go into one of our many cozy, private rooms, lock the door behind you, dim the chandelier, and seeing each other in the mirrors that surround you on all four walls, you enjoy great sex together by being in a different place and knowing that right on the other side of the wall, another couple (or threesome, foursome or more some) is doing the same. In fact you can even hear their sexy sounds through the walls which multiplies your excitement.
# 4 – You both know that you want to see more, but you’re not sure about how much you want to participate. So, wrapped in your little security blanket towels you venture into the main back rooms to the “Luvnasium” party complex covering several entire rooms and naked bodies . . . lots of them. You don’t get on the mattress, but instead you decide to observe from the window looking in, close enough to easily view all the exciting activities in the room down next to you, yet far enough away to accommodate your comfort zone. You feel like you’re part of the activities though not needing to participate in them. It’s like you’re sitting in an adult theater watching the most erotic orgy you’ve ever seen, except this time it isn’t a movie… The action is real and live!
# 5 – You see the couple you were slow dancing beside on the dance floor. There is room next to them so you spread your beach towels out on the mattress beside them and lay down. You begin kissing and playing with your mate, when after a little while the pretty girl of the couple beside you gently touches your arm to extend an invitation to touch them back. You respond to her touch not really knowing yet how much touching or caressing will take place, but knowing full well that either couple can say no at any time and set any limits they desire. Maybe the ladies only touch each other while the men each pleasure their own wives. Maybe the men are massaging both the ladies’ entire bodies or maybe the ladies are stroking the other man while having sex with her husband. Who knows what might happen this special magical night, it’s all up to you and those involved with you. Maybe she might enjoy giving you oral while her husband services her from behind, you’ll be sure to see plenty of that going on here. And maybe you’ll engage in full partner sharing with a complete exchange of partners … It’s entirely up to you and those involved, this is your night, you set your own limits.
Keep reading our set of rules and suggestions to familiarize yourself with to be sure you have the best time possible. With this approach you are certain to have the greatest night of your life.
At the end of the night, maybe you’ll exchange phone numbers with this other couple or maybe you’ll just enjoy seeing them at “Your” club once in a while… Remember, it’s all up to you.
Over 300 couples flood into Miami Velvet on a Saturday Night. About which 20% are first time visitors so why not be one of them?
A Special Note to Single Guys:
We appreciate single gentlemen and realize that you play an important role in the swinging lifestyle so select single males are permitted. “Select” means that you must be clean, polite, well dressed and well mannered. If you’re not all of these things then Miami Velvet is not for you. CLICK HERE TO READ IMPORTANT INFORMATION ON SINGLE GENTS AND THE LIFESTYLE.